Rosario's personal essay talks about how to identify oneself, in this case how she identifies with herself while discussing the many different ways which she can identify as. She gives her readers this idea of not being associated as "American" because the term American, according to her is slippery, transitory, and no geology, anthropology. She cannot seem to figure her identity out because she sees both African and Dominican inside of her. She gets called African American, Latina, Dominican and she does not understand why the different labels or a list as she says. The United States and pretty much everywhere else have created these ideas of Assimilation and "the way things are supposed to be". In traditional Latino/a culture, (sometimes) it is rude for the women to speak about anything considered "manly" like working or politics. Women are supposed to cook clean, do their work and the extended always asks about new boyfriends or if they ...